What happens when you find yourself falling in love with your very best friend? Do you simply relax and enjoy the ride? Do you fight it for all you’re worth… afraid that it’ll ruin things forever? Or do you stand down…run like hell leaving both relationships to dissipate like a cloud of dust after a windstorm on the prairie? Well, if you’re anything like me you wind up wanting to do all of the above— simultaneously, and then some.
You’ve got a wealth of emotion riding on your sleeve with every waking moment… not to mention the ever so romantic horse drawn carriage rides you take together in your dreams. Where did this come from? Has it been hidden, ever so conspicuously, just below the surface… just out of reach… waiting to smite you into the tailspin of a lifetime? Come on it’s your best friend. You’ve known all along that there was a helluva connection but you both thought it was strictly platonic… until that fateful day when the rubber (no pun intended) hit the road. It happened so suddenly… so suddenly that the fireworks that would have gone off in your head were silenced by the sound of your own beating heart. You became entangled in a rapture of love, no holds barred, get it and give it where you live type of affair never before seen or felt. An affair that would break all the rules, stand the test of time and stand the test of writing, making and breaking new rules of engagement for people throughout history.
How do you handle this when its too good to let go; you know, too scary to fathom, not to mention too nerve racking to fully embrace such an outlandish notion. Who does this? Do people in their right minds really allow this type of nonsense to happen? Well they do, it does, and it has.
And So It Begins…
Love is elusive, enjoy it in whatever form it comes your way….
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Thank you Michael. I totally agree with you.
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Do what your heart tells you but don’t forget to listen to your head.
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I love your blog already. I sometimes think about falling in love with my bestie, the thought alone is scary. I wonder how that would turn out…scary. lets see…I would probably go into hiding for 30years. Lol.
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LOL— it’s definitely scary!
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Love. Always choose love over any and everything else. Love is risky. Risks should and will have to be taken when choosing it over complacency. But in the end it will be worth it. I enjoyed getting to know your blog tonight. Keep it up! Best wishes in all endeavors!
B.
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Oh my- thank you! Yes, love is risky but well worth the effort
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Sometimes the risk is definitely worth it! 🙂
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…and sometimes not…
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True!
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